Men produce semen.
It is not a problem.
It is not dirty.
It is not shameful.
It is life moving.
What happens to that life force decides everything
A man will release, with you or without you.
That is not personal.
That is design.
But where he releases,
how he releases,
who receives him,
decides whether he belongs or whether he drifts.
What receiving means
Receiving does not mean performance.
Receiving does not mean sex.
Receiving does not mean effort.
Receiving means welcoming his semen onto your body,
with calm,
with peace,
with certainty.
Doing nothing but allowing him to release onto you is already enough.
It is not about the act.
It is about the signal.
The signal that reaches him
faster than words,
faster than thought,
faster than logic:
- “You belong here.”
- “You are safe here.”
- “This is home.”
Where can I receive him?
Anywhere you place him.
Common places include:
Different places carry different signals.
Different placements speak to different parts of him.
I will write about all of these later.
Calmly, clearly, without embarrassment,
as part of householding.
Why I am writing this
Because women were never taught this.
Because modern advice lost this truth.
Because no marriage manual says what is obvious once you see it.
Men overflow.
Life moves.
And the fastest, cleanest, most powerful way to bring a man home, is to receive what is already his longing to give.
What this site is
This is not a blog.
This is not advice.
This is not storytime.
This is householding.
This is architecture.
This is fieldwork.
“He overflows. I receive.
And in that moment; we are both home.”
What about the teachings that say a man should retain his semen?
Yes; for monks.
In Buddhist, Taoist, and other esoteric traditions, there are teachings that say a man should retain his semen to preserve his life force.
That is true; for monks.
For ascetics.
For men who have renounced the world.
But I am not married to a monk.
I am married to a man:
- Building a life.
- Building a business.
- Raising children.
- Carrying stress.
- Generating output.
This is not a monastery.
This is a household.
This is a domain.
And in a household; the fastest, cleanest, most powerful method to place a man where he belongs, is to receive him.
Not occasionally.
Not negotiably.
Not transactionally in the sense of bargaining.
Transactionally in the sense of cause and effect:
- “You release here; you belong here.”
- “You release elsewhere; you drift elsewhere.”
It is not punishment.
It is not control.
It is structure.